Short story: The project was successfully completed yesterday.
To recap in painstaking detail:
I ordered the new circulating pump and impeller on Feb 4 from Nautique Parts. The box arrived on Feb 28 looking like the USPS had dragged it all the way from North Carolina to California and maybe drop-kicked it through a couple of states. Nautique Parts responded and were willing to replace it, but it seemed ok once I opened what was left of the box. So, I finally got a block of time 2 days ago and started in.
1. I loosened the red circulation pump pulley bolts first in order to take advantage of the tension of the serpentine belt (didn't want it spinning while applying torque).
2. Pulling the serpentine belt was a piece of cake. Attach a 15 mm socket to the nut on the tension pulley and turn clockwise. The whole pulley (wheel) moves to port and down to relieve tension. Slip the belt off.
3. Finish removing the red circulation pump pulley (4 bolts).
4. Remove upper and lower hoses on the starboard side of the pump. Simple hose clamps. Water starts to drain into the bilge. (I had tried to keep the bilge dry in case anything dropped. I keep my bilge plug in because I'm on a floating lift--tides, you know--and if the lift sinks with the plug out, game over). I also have an open cooling system (suck up raw water).
5. Using a socket wrench extender remove the 4 bolts attaching the circulation pump to the block. More water drains.
6. Remove the pump. I discovered rust and evidence of a leak on the back plate of the circulation pump. Diagnosis is confirmed.
7. Compare the old pump to the new pump.
8. Freak out. They look very different. The new pump has a brass-looking plug where my old pump has a barbed hose adapter. The housings are very different. Stop. Take pictures. Email Phil at Nautique Parts (he's the one who said he'd send a new pump if mine was damaged).
9. Turn to raw water pump for impeller replacement.
10. Remove pulley (should have paid more attention to Keno's link above. This isn't necessary. Using a socket extender through the gaps in the pulley you can remove the cover without removing the pulley).
11. Remove pump cover. Impeller stayed in the housing and didn't come out in the cover with the twist that was recommended. No biggie. Pulled impeller out with needle-nose pliers.
12. Replaced O rings on pump housing and bolts. **Bolts also have external lock washers.
13. Lubed all with Jabsco Impeller oil and lathered impeller in dishwashing liquid as recommended in link above.
14. With impeller in housing, twisted impeller into pump in the direction of water flow.
15. Replace housing with "TOP" up. Got a little over-confident and skipped over that at first. Oops.
16. Start snugging bolts and preparing to torque as directed.
17. Freak out. **A lock washer had gone missing in the now-wet bilge. Even I know enough not to torque 3 bolts when only 2 have the lock washers. Dig around in murky water searching for lock washer, carefully drain bilge, say bad words when I can't find the washer.
18. Run to hardware store for 3 new stainless steel lock washers since they didn't have the same size as the 2 remaining lock washers.
19. Torque bolts to ~9 ft. lbs., replace pulley, spin, and it seems good.
20. Since I started later than I wanted and it was getting dark, pack up to return next day.
21. Email from Phil at Nautique Parts confirms the new circulation pump is the same as mine. Turns out mine has a barbed hose adapter in the upper port for the heater hose. He advises (a) to remove it and use it on the new pump or (b) get a new one at any auto parts store. I chose "a". Back to hardware store for 7/8" box wrench (crescent won't fit in the clearances) to remove the hose adapter and 7/8" Allen wrench (for brass plug removal).
22. Remove hose adapter from old pump and screw it into the new pump (after removing the brass plug--duh).
23. Apply gasket sealer #2 and gaskets to pump (not Permatex; it wasn't available. Learned that #2 sealer doesn't dry solid. News to me.)
24. Using very fine sand paper, gently smoothed up gasket surfaces on the block.
25. Applied gasket sealer to the block and then contorted and twisted and banged my head against the rope pylon (more bad words) while trying to align pump with the block.
25. Tightened the 4 bolts holding the pump to the block in a crossing pattern. Did not torque. There was conflicting advice about this.
26. Replace red circulation pump pulley. Still not sure which size Allen wrench was correct. None fit well.
27. Wound serpentine belt in pattern displayed on engine, then repeated #2 above and slid the belt onto all pulleys and checked alignment.
28. Looked for extra parts and found none.
29. Hooked up fresh water and started the engine.
30. I kept a pretty low profile fully aware of the vague instructions to "close the engine cover" (which is really hard with a freshwater hose attached to the water intake). I'm pretty sure that if something isn't connected correctly a pulley or 2 might start wobbling and go flying out.
31. Nothing flew out and nothing leaked. The water temp came up to my normal operating temp.
32. Miller time.
Thanks again for all the help! No Xanax required. Hoping to ski next week. Will check it at higher rpm's before getting too excited.