HUGE LOSS!!!

Ken - About 5 years ago our best family friends split up. The wife decided to go lesbian. The husband bent over backwards to give her time & space, etc - went on for over a year.    They did finally get divorced.   I felt sorriest for the kids with 2 moms coming to their school events.

Well, the husband ended up marrying a well-off mutual friend & is now doing very well.

Hang in there, you not going through this alone, we got your back.

Eric, can't add much more, my wife broke off all contact with the lady after she made her decision, for religous reasons.

I can add another story, however - a guy at work, about 40 with loving family, decides he would be better off as a female & gets the operation.

He transferred to another plant in our company, so I never saw him/her after the change.

These people must really want these lifestyles, as there seems to be a big price to pay to get there.

Yep, That's the reason I moved away from Iowa, too many lesbians.
But, I will have to say Miss Iowa is looking pretty cute.

not hot at all either. CC hot lesbians, are considered art to me lol, its the ones that wear the flannels,,,,ugh

hang in there bro, whatever may become of your current situation it will be for the best, sometimes you got to let a bird spread their wings, dont pressure that bird cause then it will fly away, give her some time and you both will think rationally, you are suffering from a loss in your life right now and alot of us have been thru it, so your not alone....I read your posts and know exactly what you are going thru and you shouldnt blame your self....if a man can communicate to a woman, then he is gay, ever notice how a gay man has alotta hot girls around him. Men cant communicate, impossible. But again you were the same man you are now when you met her, so something sparked her interest.
Give her some time, think things out and whatever the outcome is, is what it is suppose to be. things happen for a reason in life.

I was at a store once pushing the cart, and noticed a couple of girls, one smokin hot and the other flanneled out, went around the corner to the next isle and they were gingerly hugging with a kiss, no meat in their diets...the flanneled one looked like Chers kid, but yes she was a girl....when do the wires cross?

Ken I am sorry to here of your divorce. When I got divorced back ten years ago I had the best summer of my life with my boat and friends. Just look forward to all the good timesand good friends this summer. Go out and tear up the lake this summer. Dont worry about your boat you can repair it next winter.

Ken,
Just don't spend too much time wondering: "If only I had just (made more money)(Listened more)(helped out around the house more)(been funnier)(been better looking)etc." At the end of the day, you were the best person you were capable of being. And that time spent wondering is time you don't get back.

Your better off wondering how you gonna grab that one more red ball

Thanks, Brian. I think Patricia and I learned a lot from this awful situation. I know it's woken me up to things I never saw in the past. I'm going to come out the other end a stronger person, as I know she will too. I'm in no rush to move on relationship wise. Getting myself squared away is priority number one. Everyday I look for one or two little things that put a grin or even smile on my face. An occasional laugh is helpful too. CCF.com usually helps with that. The future is very unclear. It's very difficult to look days or weeks ahead. Getting through each day is an accomplishment of its own. I just want Patricia to be happy as well. I NEVER in a million years pictured myself without her. Nothing else in the world matters when you lose your loved one. It's too late for me to try and work things out now. Maybe someday in the future we'll cross paths again.

Thanks again for all the support, guys. This is a great group to lean on.

Ken

Hollywood wrote: Hey, you can let your eyes wander at the boat show this year.

Ken, Tried unsuccessfully to reach you last week to see if you wanted to go grab some dinner after work some day. Give me a call if that works for you. 508-367-4122.
-Larry

A few words passed on from my preist during mine and Brenda's breakup, 3 kids and 30 plus yrs.I too just wanted everything to be the way it WAS...
The last 8 years of my life have been filled with more blessing and adventures than I ever thought possible.I would have only met a few members here had it not been for a divorce,for that I give thanks....Boat dr

"There comes a time in every cowboys life ,when "YOU" have remove "Your" saddle from that dead horse and move on"

Bri892001 wrote: Your better off wondering how you gonna grab that one more red ball

And you will have time to take care of the blue ones later.